Give a gift that speaks the right language.

Acts of Service Physical Touch Quality Time Receiving Gifts Words of Affirmation

Organizers

When things are organized, it makes people feel good. Gift some things that make organizing easier for your friends, spouse, or family.

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Signature Recipe

If your spouse loves a cooking or baking show, make one of the signature recipes together! Gather all the ingredients ahead of time and then present the invitiation in a card or note.

Custom Trophy

Find a local or online trophy shop and create a customized trophy for a friend or relative. Be creative and fun, but most of all, make it personal!

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Book

Does your spouse work from home? Grab a book and sit next to one another during his or her work time. This shows that you’re choosing to be with them, even in the mundane.

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Yard Signs

Celebrate special occasions by putting a special message right in the front yard!

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Coupons

Create a few appropriate “Physical Touch” coupons for your loved one. Be creative and remember that not everyone likes to be touched the same way. Canva has a tickets template to help you get started.

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The 5 Love Languages® for Men

At the heart of every man is a desire to master what matters. Getting a compliment at work or on the court is nice, but nothing beats hearing your spouse say, “You make me feel loved.” If you haven’t heard that in a while or feel like you are not bringing your A-game into your relationship, this book is for you.

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Excursion

One dialect of Quality Time is sharing experiences together. Plan an excursion to sky-dive, trek to Machu Picchu, or sail in the Carribbean—whatever you decide, endeavor to enjoy every moment together.

Robotic Vacuum

Robotic vacuums make the chore so much easier and they overflow with Acts of Service love. Here's a list of Consumer Report's best robotic vacuums of 2021.

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Back Scratcher

For the person who feels loved through Physical Touch, consider giving a back scratcher or massager that you can use to administer some relaxation sessions.

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Air Travel

Keep an eye on your preferred airline’s specials throughout the year (this page from Southwest, for example) and surprise your loved one with a trip to somewhere new!

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Picture Book

Gather your favorite photos of you and your loved one and create an album! It's a fun way to recapture the moments and relive the memories.

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Cooking Class

Take a cooking class with your partner! Side by side, you are sure to give and receive many touches. Make it a point to be close and have fun. Check out this site for classes near you. Bon appétit!

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Learning the 5 Love Languages™ with Dr. Gary Chapman

Join Dr. Gary Chapman, long-time marriage counselor and bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages® for this six-session, MasterClass-style presentation on how to build the kind of love that lasts.

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