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Words of Affirmation (37%)
Words don't just reach you—they stick with you. The right ones can make your whole day; the wrong ones replay in your head for years. You don't need big gestures or expensive proof. You just need someone who says "I love you," actually means it, and can tell you why.
Words of Affirmation has 3 dialects.
What's Yours?Secondary
Physical Touch (30%)
For you, love must be felt. A hand on your back, a lingering hug, a spontaneous squeeze at just the right moment—they fill you up in ways words never can. Without physical connection, you don't just feel unloved. You feel invisible. The right touch changes everything.
Physical Touch has 7 dialects.
What's Yours?Secondary
Quality Time (13%)
Being in the same room doesn't count if you're not really there. You need the phone put away, real eye contact, actual attention. When someone's distracted, it feels like rejection. But when someone's fully present with you—truly present—that's when you feel most loved.
Quality Time has 4 dialects.
What's Yours?Secondary
Receiving Gifts (13%)
It was never really about the thing itself. It's about what it means—that someone saw something and thought of you. That they remembered. A forgotten birthday or a careless gift stings more than people realize. But a small, thoughtful gesture? That means the world.
Receiving Gifts has 4 dialects.
What's Yours?Foreign
Acts of Service (7%)
You don't need poetry. You need someone who takes out the trash without being asked. When someone lightens your load, you feel it. When they drop the ball or don't follow through, that feels like a message too. For you, love isn't something you say—it's something you do.
Acts of Service has 4 dialects.
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Premium
Ideal for: Growth-minded individuals or couples who want to go deeper - not just skim the surface, but transform how they love and connect.
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Ideal for: Mildly curious, "just for fun" types who are content with the highlights and not seeking the deeper, more personalized results.
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Love Language™ Profile
Discover how you give and receive love best.
Profile Card (Downloadable)
Help others understand you more easily.
Custom Report (15 Pages)
See what makes love personal and preferable to you.
Love Language™ Dialects
Discover your unique personal preferences for the 22 love language dialects.
Love Skills Analysis
Strengthen the habits that make love easier to express.
Love Tank™ Levels
Find what (and who) truly fills and empties your heart.
Personality Filters
See how your personality shapes the way you love.
Strengths + Blind spots
Build on what's working and notice what blocks connection.
Emotional Well-Being Snapshot
Show up as your best, most grounded, and loving self.
Love in Action Worksheet
Turn insight into daily, practical expressions of love.
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Frequently Asked Questions
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The price of The 5 Love Languages® Premium Assessment is for an individual and includes a fully personalized 15-page report with infographics and insights that help one understand how they are wired to love and be loved.
We encourage couples to take the premium assessment individually and then plan a time to discuss their results together. This can be a fun way to get to know one another on a deeper level, filled with insights and plenty of "Aha!" moments.
Is the premium assessment just for romantic relationships or any relationship (i.e., family, friends)?
The premium assessment can help you strengthen and improve any relationship type. It helps you better understand how your unique personality interplays with your love language profile in relationships. It gives you the tools to love and be loved, whether with your parents, siblings, friends, or romantic partner.
Will I be required to import my free quiz results into the premium assessment?
No, but you can if you’ve completed the free quiz and want to save time. The choice is yours.
What are Love Language™ Dialects?
Your unique personality can greatly affect how you prefer to give and receive love. These distinctions are crucial for helping others understand and love you well.
For example, your primary love language might be Words of Affirmation, but you may prefer a private card or personal note of encouragement over being called out publicly on stage and given compliments in front of a crowd.
Another example might be when it comes to Receiving Gifts. Perhaps you prefer more heartfelt and sentimental gifts, yet your partner continues to buy you practical gifts (e.g., a vacuum cleaner, socks, kitchen appliances) on special days.
The Love Language™ Dialects help you drill down deeper into your unique preferences so you don’t waste time with stereotypes and broad strokes.
Can I reset or retake my premium assessment once I am finished?
No, you cannot currently retake or reset your premium assessment. Your 15-page personalized report is designed to be a snapshot in time, assessing and analyzing many factors, including your current emotional well-being, love tank levels in different relationships, and more. If we open this functionality to any degree in the future, you will have access to it if you’ve previously purchased the premium assessment.
In the meantime, you can retake the FREE Love Language™ Quiz to reassess your percentage ratios in your Love Language™ profile anytime.
Can I share and print my premium assessment results?
Absolutely. Your 15-page, fully personalized report can be easily saved, printed, and shared. This is helpful if you meet with a counselor or marriage mentor or just want to show your spouse.
What if I am having a technical issue with the premium assessment?
We do our best to avoid technical issues, but they happen occasionally. If you’ve experienced one, feel free to contact us here.
How long does it take to complete the premium assessment?
It will take approximately 20 minutes, but you can save time by importing your free Love Language™ profile results.
Is the premium assessment a one-time purchase or a subscription?
It is a one-time purchase, but once you complete it, you will have perpetual access to your 15-page report. No subscription is required.
Where can I access my premium assessment results?
Your results are always available on your account dashboard when you log in at 5lovelanguages.com/login.
Can I take the premium assessment with family and/or friends?
Absolutely. We encourage it. Comparing your results with those of loved ones and friends is fun and insightful. Plus, everyone will walk away better equipped to love each other in the ways that matter most.
Can I give the premium assessment as a gift or buy it in bulk?
Yes, once you add your premium assessment to your cart, you will be given the opportunity to buy one or more gift codes for others. If you purchase 12 or more, you’ll get an automatic 40% off.
If you would rather buy gift codes separately, click the "give as a gift" button on this page at any time. These codes are great for relationship counselors, coaches, ministries, and mentors.
Do I still need the book and/or workbook if I get the premium assessment?
The premium assessment will help you personalize the concepts in the trade book, but it doesn’t replace the information about the concepts themselves. With over 20 million copies sold, the book has proved itself helpful to help heal, strengthen, and improve relationships worldwide. The stories and illustrations in the book bring the concepts of how to implement and navigate different relationship dynamics to life. You can get the book for couples or singles. Or, if you prefer to go all in, you can get the book/workbook bundle for couples.
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Which of the four Words of Affirmation Dialects do you prefer?
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Explore how your personality traits (like introvert vs extrovert) shape your Love Language experience.
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