The Love Language™ That Matters Most

What if the way you speak the love languages is missing more than it’s connecting?

For over 30 years, Dr. Gary Chapman’s The 5 Love Languages has transformed relationships worldwide, selling more than 20 million copies and inspiring over 150 million people to discover their love language at 5lovelanguages.com.

But here’s the truth: discovering your love language is just the beginning.

Love isn’t one-size-fits-all. What feels loving to one person may not feel the same to another. 

👉 Does your friend light up at encouragement but shrug off a compliment?
👉 Does your child beam at a small gesture while ignoring something bigger?
👉 Does your spouse go silent, get upset, or fake a smile when you give a gift?
👉 Does one kind of touch make you pull away while another draws you closer? 

Each love language has dialects — the personal and powerful ways love is uniquely expressed and received. Miss them, and even the right language can fall flat. But when you notice the nuances, everything changes.

In this long-awaited follow-up, Chapman teams up with relationship experts Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott to uncover and explore the 22 hidden dialects that make love feel personal, powerful, and real.

Consider this book your master class in emotional connection. With Dr. Chapman and the Parrotts as your trusted guides, you’ll be empowered to move from theory to practice and from “trying” to truly connecting.

Whether you’re dating, decades into marriage, raising children, caring for parents, or deepening lifelong friendships, this book provides you with the tools to stop trying harder and start connecting more deeply.

Take the next step in the Love Languages™ journey.
Make love personal.

Because the love language that matters most isn’t the one you’re trying to speak — it’s the one your loved one is longing to hear.